Utah Bob #35998 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 This is Elk Rock. It is the highest sandstone outcropping on the property, 100 ft above the dry creek bed. I named it Elk Rock because it was from there I fist saw some elk in the late winter of 2006. Yesterday, with a gentle northwest breeze, I scattered Carol’s and our son Bill’s ashes there. One of the hardest things I’ve ever done but it gave me some small feeling of closure. They are both now forever part of the spirit of the Lazy Bob Ranch.
Birdgun Quail, SASS #63663 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 Well done, friend. Well done. As I recall, you lost your son, Bill, in the month of August also. I can't even begin to imagine your loss. But I do know, Bob, that you will carry on as you must. I pray that the Good Lord will help lighten your load.
DeaconKC Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 I have no words... Thank you for sharing this...
Doc Shapiro Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 I don't really have the words. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. They'll live on in your memories. Thanks for sharing.
Dead Eye Jake Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 My prayers for you. May our Father in Heaven give you comfort. Remember all of the many memories you have of them both.
Jabez Cowboy,SASS # 50129 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 May you hold them close in your heart, and the Lord tight to your side . God Bless and Keep You ... Jabez Cowboy
Waxahachie Kid #17017 L Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 Mere words are always so very inadequate. But other than our presence, words are all we have to offer. This life is very tough, and the older one gets, the tougher life gets. But we know this is not the only existence. There is too much proof, out there...from the telescope, to the microscope, and everywhere in between. That knowledge gives us the hope, and the strength, and the presence of mind, to keep us from going insane in our present grief, and our loss. What helps me, besides studying the proofs, and the evidence, is knowing that my loved ones have simply gone on ahead, and are waiting for me, at end of trail. This life is short, and full of troubles. Eternity is, well, eternal, and that makes the short time we have here, as not even a drop in the bucket. It seems like a long, lonely time, now...like most things we have to endure now. But when we look back, it seems short. Our loved ones are, after all, only a heart beat away. But we have to live, and by living, we keep their memory alive, and we are able tell others about them, and share our memories of them. We honor them by living, and telling others about them. How long will we remember them? For as long as we live. How long will God remember them? For as long as HE lives. Each day we live, brings us a day closer to them. But, again...mere words are so inadequate, at a time like this. So very inadequate.
Calamity Kris Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 I too am at a loss for words. I am honored you trust us enough to share your grief with us. Know we are here for you.
Rye Miles #13621 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 May they both rest in peace and condolences and prayers for you.
LawMan Mark, SASS #57095L Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 Prayers for peace are lifted up. God bless.
Tequila Shooter Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 Bob may God give you peace and strength. I cannot think of a better place than the Lazy Bob for their final resting place. During this time of grieving embrace your memories, be strong, but if you want to talk myself and many others of your SASS family are here for you.
Deacon Henry, SASS #53503L Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 A beautiful place May you find comfort in your memories. Blessings for you Bob.
Blackwater 53393 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 A good place to go and see them, share the view, and share the memories. God grant you peace!
Subdeacon Joe Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 May their memories be eternal!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=si_H9GXuGtU
Singin' Sue 71615 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 Thank your for sharing your 'service' for Carrol and your son. Blessings, love and peace your way.
Forty Rod SASS 3935 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 Go up there whenever you can and talk to them. I know it sounds foolish and trite, but it has helped me for over five years. I wish I had an Elk Rock, but Shawna is in Clearfield, Utah with her parents and her brother, but the distance doesn't matter. I have a direct line to her.
Pat Riot Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 I cannot fathom... I cannot finish what I was going to say. Be well Bob. Take things one day at a time as best you can.
Finagler 6853 Life Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 A beautiful remembrance. Thank you for sharing. Peace.
Yellowhouse Sam # 25171 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 Glad you've found the strength for this. Peace to you!
Smoky Pistols Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 You have my deepest sympathies UB. I know your heart is heavy and your soul is tired, but keep the happy memories close to your heart. Epitaph By Merrit Malloy When I die Give what’s left of me away To children And old me that wait to die. And if you need to cry, Cry for your brother Walking the street beside you. And when you need me, Put your arms Around anyone And give them What you need to give to me. I want to leave you something, Something better Than words Or sounds. Look for me In the people I’ve known Or loved, And if you cannot give me away, At least let me live on in your eyes And not your mind. You can love me most By letting Hands touch hands, By letting bodies touch bodies, And by letting go Of children That need to be free. Love doesn’t die, People do. So, when all that’s left of me Is love, Give me away.
Four-Eyed Buck,SASS #14795 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 Prayers for you,UB. We're here for you when you need to talk................
Linn Keller, SASS 27332, BOLD 103 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 My hand on your shoulder, my friend. You have done them a final honor, and that is the mark of a man: that he does this, knowing how hard it will be.
Sixgun Sheridan Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 We should all be so lucky as to have such a beautiful and peaceful final resting place.
Badger Mountain Charlie SASS #43172 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 Bob, my condolences for your loss, my prayers for you. God Bless you.
Tex Jones, SASS 2263 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 A hard task. Condolences to you and the family.
Widder, SASS #59054 Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 As our wire Pard Linn Keller stated graciously....... "You have done them a final honor......." A prayer for comfort and condolences to you, Bob. ..........Widder
twelve mile REB Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 You have my heart felt admiration for quality of character you displayed during these last few years and the completion of the hardest task of all. Semper Fi
Tex Wilson Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 My sincerest condolences U.B. Elk Rock is beautiful resting place.
DocWard Posted August 17, 2021 Posted August 17, 2021 Thank you for sharing with us. You remain in my thoughts and meditations.
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