would you do this?

[Alpo]

Yes, this was on a TV show. And I looked at it and I thought - wow. I sure wouldn't do that.

 

But maybe I'm just too damn old. Times have changed and I haven't changed with them.

 

You are a single parent. You have two teenage children. One a freshman in college and the other a sophomore in high school. Both of them live at home.

 

You meet somebody that you like greatly.

 

Would you invite them to your home, where your children live, to spend the night with you?

 

Yes I understand that just because you're a parent does not mean you no longer wish to have sex. But would you have sex with someone you were not married to in your house when your children were there?

 

As I say, I wouldn't. I'd go to her house.

[Sgt. C.J. Sabre, SASS #46770]

1 hour ago, Alpo said:

As I say, I wouldn't. I'd go to her house.

Same here. That way, when the CRAZY comes out, she doesn't know where to find me.

[Oak Ridge Regulator]

1 hour ago, Sgt. C.J. Sabre, SASS #46770 said:

Same here. That way, when the CRAZY comes out, she doesn't know where to find me.

If I could give that statement 5 thumbs up I would

[Alpo]

Here you go Regulator. Save this to your hard drive. It will come in handy frequently.

 

[Forty Rod SASS 3935]

4 hours ago, Alpo said:

Yes, this was on a TV show. And I looked at it and I thought - wow. I sure wouldn't do that.

 

But maybe I'm just too damn old. Times have changed and I haven't changed with them.

 

You are a single parent. You have two teenage children. One a freshman in college and the other a sophomore in high school. Both of them live at home.

 

You meet somebody that you like greatly.

 

Would you invite them to your home, where your children live, to spend the night with you?

 

Yes I understand that just because you're a parent does not mean you no longer wish to have sex. But would you have sex with someone you were not married to in your house when your children were there?

 

As I say, I wouldn't. I'd go to her house.

My kids never lived at home once they moved out.  I stayed married for 51 1/2 yers when my wife died.

 

The situation never turned up.

[Texas Maverick]

16 hours ago, Alpo said:

Yes, this was on a TV show. And I looked at it and I thought - wow. I sure wouldn't do that.

 

But maybe I'm just too damn old. Times have changed and I haven't changed with them.

 

You are a single parent. You have two teenage children. One a freshman in college and the other a sophomore in high school. Both of them live at home.

 

You meet somebody that you like greatly.

 

Would you invite them to your home, where your children live, to spend the night with you?

 

Yes I understand that just because you're a parent does not mean you no longer wish to have sex. But would you have sex with someone you were not married to in your house when your children were there?

 

As I say, I wouldn't. I'd go to her house.

and what if she has kids at home? Guess you do without or the back seat of the car. LOL 

 

 

TM

[ShadowCatcher]

Sorry, but it's going to be months and months of "getting to know you" before that matter comes up.

Even then, might take a three or four day road trip together, as part of "Getting to know you".

Involving the younger family members takes some knowledge and trust before that happens.

 

SC

[Alpo]

1 hour ago, Texas Maverick said:

and what if she has kids at home? Guess you do without or the back seat of the car. LOL 

 

 

TM

Isn't that why they invented those "no tell motel" "hot sheet joints" that rent rooms by the hour?

[Texas Maverick]

On 7/12/2024 at 12:10 PM, Alpo said:

Isn't that why they invented those "no tell motel" "hot sheet joints" that rent rooms by the hour?

and you get to take home more than you went there with. LOL

 

TM

[Marshal Mo Hare, SASS #45984]

2 hours ago, Texas Maverick said:

and what if she has kids at home? Guess you do without or the back seat of the car. LOL 

 

 

TM

Get a Room, don’t be cheap, a nice place.

[watab kid]

no to your question but id not have kids that age living at home either , 

[Alpo]

You wouldn't have a 10th grader still living at home?

[watab kid]

sorry , i misread , im wrong here -

 

i thought both in college , mine both went to school - lived at school , even the one that went to school here , the scholerships paid for the room and board and they learned the difference of home and adulthood , im sure ill get lots more responses but my kids are independent have great families and are always welcome ,,,,,,,,just never moved home [they could if needed] 

 

a high schooler here would never get pushed out , be held close , hoping things were well prepared for their departure first , voth of my kids left for college and only returned for brief visits as i doid with my folks , my grandchildren are here for extended periods , two coming tomorrow , 

[watab kid]

1 minute ago, watab kid said:

sorry , i misread , im wrong here -

 

i thought both in college , mine both went to school - lived at school , even the one that went to school here , the scholerships paid for the room and board and they learned the difference of home and adulthood , im sure ill get lots more responses but my kids are independent have great families and are always welcome ,,,,,,,,just never moved home [they could if needed] 

 

a high schooler here would never get pushed out , be held close , hoping things were well prepared for their departure first , both of my kids left for college and only returned for brief visits as i did with my folks , my grandchildren are here for extended periods , two coming tomorrow , 

for what its worth , neither of my children were ever in trouble , neither ever cost me much for school , and both are well established , well paid , and take care of their families as they were raised , im not claiming to be the perfect parent - that would be my wife who is also the perfect grandparent , i will say i was blessed with two near perfect kids , and ill put that on my tombstone 

[Forty Rod SASS 3935]

8 hours ago, watab kid said:

sorry , i misread , im wrong here -

 

i thought both in college , mine both went to school - lived at school , even the one that went to school here , the scholerships paid for the room and board and they learned the difference of home and adulthood , im sure ill get lots more responses but my kids are independent have great families and are always welcome ,,,,,,,,just never moved home [they could if needed] 

 

a high schooler here would never get pushed out , be held close , hoping things were well prepared for their departure first , voth of my kids left for college and only returned for brief visits as i doid with my folks , my grandchildren are here for extended periods , two coming tomorrow , 

My dad told us the night I brought home my new bride (we eloped) that my wife could come there any time she wanted and stay as long as she wanted.  He told me the same thing but added " but you don't want to come more than twice a year and you don't want to stay more than three nights".

 

I told my son the same thing.

[watab kid]

On 7/13/2024 at 9:02 AM, Forty Rod SASS 3935 said:

My dad told us the night I brought home my new bride (we eloped) that my wife could come there any time she wanted and stay as long as she wanted.  He told me the same thing but added " but you don't want to come more than twice a year and you don't want to stay more than three nights".

 

I told my son the same thing.

i never got those restrictions but i seldom went home after leaving and never stayed the night , i visited as any visitor would , 

[Rip Snorter]

Guests and fish!  An old one.