Trigger Mike Posted March 9, 2015 Posted March 9, 2015 We are still waiting for the scan and blood test results to see if she can restart chemo or have to try something else. Meanwhile we do not talk and only pass each other and when we talk it is tense or depressing. Friday she asked me if we could ever get back our marriage. I told her it is a two way street. she said neither one of us wants to drive down it. Today I told her how much out of pocket the CT scan will be tomorrow and that I will transfer the required amount into her individual account from our joint account where she pays all the medical bills from. She started crying and said it was important to her that no family money be used for her medical bills. I asked why, she said it just is and said she was not crying though tears were falling on her shirt. She just kept saying it was important for no family money be used. Told her family money is for the family and that includes her. Told her I had been funding her individual account all along to cover each bill. She cried more. She inherited a small amount of money and I had left it in her name but had invested it for her and instead of selling the investments I had been sending more funds to cover the checks so her account would grow despite the medical bills being paid out of it. I do not understand why it must come from her account.
Finagler 6853 Life Posted March 9, 2015 Posted March 9, 2015 Prayers for you both. Be strong as long as you can.
Wolfgang, SASS #53480 Posted March 10, 2015 Posted March 10, 2015 Hang in there . . . . just go day by day. . . . and pray.
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