Utah Bob #35998 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Still, it irritates me some when people do this. I know it's not intentional. They don't really mean to be insensitive. Got an e-mail today from Big R sporting goods advertising their annual Memorial Day Sale. I don't have a problem with Memorial Day Sales. But they said, "Happy Memorial Day!". Happy? Really? Some of us have a hard time trying to keep our spirits up this time of year. Happy Memorial Day it ain't. I need a drink now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chickasaw Bill SASS #70001 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 UB Sir , I will join you in a drink to our fallen brothers and sisters . CB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whiskey Business Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Let me buy you both a drink, and toast those who gave everything. How can anyone be dumb enough not to know that happy and memorial just don't go together? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlie Harley, #14153 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 "Happy"? Geesh..... I'll join you in that drink. Memorial Day is up close and personal this year. Rest in Peace, PFC Cody Board. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dakota Rebel, SASS# 58412 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 To many, it's just another holiday and a day off from work. For others, it's alot more. All gave some, some gave all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apache Hawk 60642 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 I lost a couple good friends in counrty. "Happy" it aint, indeed !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stubborn Dutchman, SASS # 61363 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 I'll join you all for that drink. In memory of those no longer with us. I'll be visiting cemetaries in two states to tend to head stones and plant flowers. Gone, ... but not forgotten. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dorado Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 I'll join you too. I tried to serve but they couldn't take me. But my girlfriend is in Iraq right now. Talked to her this morning. I've had a lot of family and have quite a few friends serve. Just wish I could too. I'll buy a round or two. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aunt Jen Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Let me buy you both a drink, and toast those who gave everything. How can anyone be dumb enough not to know that happy and memorial just don't go together? Roger all that. Most of my family was military at one time or another. Everyone turns to listen. "Barkeep: Give us all a cold one!" Smiles all around. Does anyone want to make a toast? Aunt Jen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dog Ears Wilson, SASS #77948 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Good reminder. I hope I haven't been guilty of absentmindedly saying that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subdeacon Joe Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 I agree, Bob. But what do you use for a salutation to mark the day? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Subdeacon Joe Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Roger all that. Most of my family was military at one time or another. Everyone turns to listen. "Barkeep: Give us all a cold one!" Smiles all around. Does anyone want to make a toast? Aunt Jen To Absent Friends! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bama Red Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 I'll be participating in the ceremonies at Maple Hill cemetery in Huntsville on Monday. It won't exactly be a "happy" occasion, but it will be one I'm "proud" of. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deja Vous Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Still, it irritates me some when people do this. I know it's not intentional. They don't really mean to be insensitive. Got an e-mail today from Big R sporting goods advertising their annual Memorial Day Sale. I don't have a problem with Memorial Day Sales. But they said, "Happy Memorial Day!". Happy? Really? Some of us have a hard time trying to keep our spirits up this time of year. Happy Memorial Day it ain't. I need a drink now. I guess the happy part is because it is past.. but I know what you mean. There are a lot of people I miss, a lot of people who came home not the same as when they left, and a lot of memories. I am happy to be safe and ;protected.. and sad because I didn't help in any way at all. At least during WWII women helped out by being in the factories... I should have been a nurse or something instead at that time. Thanks for your service Utahs.. And to everyone else that makes my life possible in the USA... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlie Whiskers Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 I'll be going to the Veterans Memorial here in town.My Dad and 2 uncles have a plaque on the wall for their service in WWII.All 3 are gone now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McKenzie River Drifter, #74138 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Bob The Man. Thanks so much for all you do to remember our veterans. We lost our last WWII vet from Mule Camp this year and he is sorely missed. Bronco Rider was a pard to ride the river with. McKenzie SASSVET 240 River Drifter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marshal Dan Troop 70448 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 For those that never served, nor had a friend or loved one fallen will never know nor feel the pains of the true meaning of this day, which for many is painfull. I raise my glass and salute those who gave their all so I might be free and not oppressed. MT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colonel John Hays, SASS #29625 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Going this a m to visit my best friend...gonna clean up his spot and put up our flag. will have a drink with him later. BS OLC PH Jack Hays Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rye Miles #13621 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 I wasn't in the military but had 2 friends that I lost over in VietNam. One friend got a disease over in Korea and wound up with skin cancer and died at 24. I remember these good friends and I raise my glass to them and all who gave themselves for our country. "Happy" is not part of Memorial Day. Rye Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noz Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 To Absent Friends! That is my choice and yes, I'll raise a glass for them! Absent Friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Sage, SASS #49891 Life Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 I agree, Bob. But what do you use for a salutation to mark the day? I was wondering the same thing, then this morning I noticed my flag (it flies over my place 24/7) is getting kinda tattered. Time for a new one, which will be raised Memorial day morning with appropriate ceremony. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Utah Bob #35998 Posted May 26, 2011 Author Share Posted May 26, 2011 I agree, Bob. But what do you use for a salutation to mark the day? I don't really think we need one. It's not like Happy Easter of Merry Christmas or Happy Veteran's Day. There is no special salutation to mark the day when you greet folks at a memorial service or funeral. Other holidays are cause for celebration and salutation. This one is for remembrance and reflection. I think it stands alone. I mark the day in my heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marshal Dan Troop 70448 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 This one is for remembrance and reflection. I think it stands alone. I mark the day in my heart. Many times, its also emotional with tears, a lump in the troat, and the heart beats faster. Thanks for all the work you have done, and continue to do for all to remember Utah. I salute you. MT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Steel Duke Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 I agree, Bob. But what do you use for a salutation to mark the day? "I thank you for your service to our country, and today I remember your comrades who didn't come home". BSD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Steel Duke Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Still, it irritates me some when people do this. I know it's not intentional. They don't really mean to be insensitive. Got an e-mail today from Big R sporting goods advertising their annual Memorial Day Sale. I don't have a problem with Memorial Day Sales. But they said, "Happy Memorial Day!". Happy? Really? Some of us have a hard time trying to keep our spirits up this time of year. Happy Memorial Day it ain't. I need a drink now. Thank you for your service to our country, 3 fingers of Knob Creek on me sir! BSD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dusty Balz, SASS#46599 Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 I'll be riding with the Patriot Guard on Monday A raised glass and my highest respect for the fallen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oklahomabound Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 UB, you be right. Here's a poem that hits at the Memorial Day: For those who fought and died For the families who have cried Despite the politicians who (may) have lied Give a prayer or just stand silent Remember what their lives meant And it's okay to shed a tear For this land we hold so dear The souls of soldiers past Will forever a shadow cast Upon this land from coast to coast So unto them I pledge this toast I don't have who wrote this, but it says what I wanted said. Okb Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uno Mas SASS #80082 Posted May 27, 2011 Share Posted May 27, 2011 Absent Friends. And what can never be said enough: Thank You. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grizzly Dave Posted May 27, 2011 Share Posted May 27, 2011 To all those who fought and died And those who returned forever changed we raise our glasses high Your sacrifices have been many and oft times your thanks to few you paid the price for freedom Yet there are those of us who won't forget we raise our glass to you. Grizz taint no UB Pome, but there's my toast for Memorial Day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harvey Mushman Posted May 27, 2011 Share Posted May 27, 2011 A day to reflect, remember and salute our fallen and missing comrades. God Bless our country and the freedom we enjoy thanks in large part to their ultimate sacrifice. They will NOT be forgotten. NOT a "happy" day, but it can be an opportunity to gently educate someone who uses that phrase without thinking/understanding. I've almost always had a good reaction when I've engaged this way - hopefully the day meant more to them (than just a "day off") for the rest of their lives. Harvey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeremiah Sullivan Posted May 29, 2011 Share Posted May 29, 2011 I don't really think we need one. It's not like Happy Easter of Merry Christmas or Happy Veteran's Day. There is no special salutation to mark the day when you greet folks at a memorial service or funeral. Other holidays are cause for celebration and salutation. This one is for remembrance and reflection. I think it stands alone. I mark the day in my heart. That last part is the important part, to mark the day in our hearts. For a toast, "To Absent Friends" works for me. And as a greeting, perhaps, something like "Have an Honorable Memorial Day" which by its very words excludes politicians of every stripe and journalists, too. Or perhaps, "Have a Memorable Memorial Day" but that seems a little too vanilla, not to mention redundant and repetitions, and...er.... Here's to Absent Friends. May you all (Y'all) have an Honorable Memorial Day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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