Mom is at my brother’s for the week. Doing better, but she still isn’t taking care of herself well enough.
My sister and my brother are both micro-managing her and she’s rebelling.
Sister started a group text to keep everyone informed. To this point there have been nearly 200 messages! Only six or seven from me. The two of them are driving me nuts and I understand why Mom is frustrated.
We have straightened up Mom’s finances and gotten her medication organized. Most of the credit there goes to my sister. She has the facilities and the time to handle those details.
I have handled the interaction with the medicos when they don’t provide the necessary treatment or when they don’t understand what my mom has going on.
Mom wants to get back to her place. We have to get her to where she can and will do what it takes to make that happen and to maintain herself when she gets there.
I’m going to remain skeptical for the foreseeable future.